Ten Principles for Dating

I often get asked by people what’s the key to dating success. Well, it’s a mix of many different factors which should all be employed if and when necessary. If you don’t know where to start, why don’t you check our ‘Ten Principles for Dating’ which we are confident will help improve your skills!

1. Planning - never ask a girl what she fancies doing on a date, at least not the first few times you go out together. Everything should be planned and prepared. Have a Plan B if necessary. Being taken out is extremely attractive to a girl.
2. Different - plan something she ain’t done over and over with blokes trying to be her boyfriend. These guys take her to dinner, they meet for a drink or they invite her to a cinema. These sorts of dates remind most girls of the blokes they’ve turned down in the past, and they’re neither fresh nor interesting.
3. External Stimulation - try and take her where the surrounding environment is more stimulating and conversation ain’t your main source of fun. This is a major problem with dinner, coffee or drinks as it puts an awful lot of pressure on your verbal skills. Thinking of doing some shopping or wine tasting instead of going for dinner or drinks.
4. Interaction - this one needs mentioning in case you go way too far with our advice in the previous paragraph. Films do provide a fair amount of entertainment and stuff to talk about but they present no opportunity for conversation or to learn more about one another. Make your date a shared experience, not a common experience that can be enjoyed independently.
5. Excitement - try and take her through a variety of sensations and emotions. For instance, at a comedy club, you can see her laughing, scandalised or amused. At a gallery opening, she’d be entranced, offended and stimulated.
6. Your Turf - invite her to do something you’re already doing and quite knowledgeable about. Naturally, you will assume the dominant, powerful position.
7. Multiple Venues - it certainly feels like you have spent more time with a girl and that you know her better if you’ve done loads of different things with her, though each activity might have lasted a very short time.
8. Logistics - plan the logistics so it’s more reasonable for her to come back to your place. For instance, choose activities near your place. Or have her meet you at your house before the two of you go out - her car will be there and at some point you will both need to return there.
9. Nights - if your aim is to move towards sex, try to see her at night or plan dates going into that time. Wait until it’s dark outside.
10. You - try and see her when you will be at your best. If you’re knackered and stressed on Wednesday afternoons because of your meeting with your boss, don’t do nothing right after work on Wednesday. Choose a time you’ll be feeling good, conversational and playful, not tired and worn out.

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