Sexual Attraction

A number of different variables often affect sexual attraction and then sexual behaviour. Two of the key factors are hormones and upbringing. Physical and visual features affect men and women alike but often have a greater impact on men.

More men would fancy sleeping with a fit girl, even if they knew absolutely nothing about her, than girls would do in sleeping with a fit man. Arousal also plays a vital role here.

You might not not find someone particularly attractive but you will still sleep with her if she’s aroused you with her sexual touch. Of course the majority of people understand this concept but the crucial factor most men miss is sexual tension.

Tension is essential because it reflects the absolute thrill of the chase. While you might be happy to sleep with a beauty queen spontaneously appearing on your bed, it’s most likely that you’d want her even more should she, for instance, appear in your living room, flirt with you, let you spend a bit of time imagining boning her before you eventually won her over.

This build-up of sexual tension can be important for men, but it’s absolutely crucial for most girls.