Reassurance and Intimacy

Have you ever wondered what it is that can really win over a girl? It could be your looks, money, personality etc. All these factors do matter a great deal but according to my personal experience, you need to do anything you can to make her feel comfortable with you because if she does, absolutely anything and …. everything is possible!

Reassurance

Most girls will naturally object to sexual contact by someone they’ve just met. They might want you to stop, slow down, ignore their objections or even increase the sexual tension. They might not even know what they want but their immediate reaction is to say no.

Well, it doesn’t really matter what she wants. At the end of the day, who gives a monkey’s if she says no. Just try and make her feel a bit more comfortable with you and she might just say yes. Alternatively, date someone else. The skill set in this guide will give you many options, so it’s not a disaster if a few of them don’t pan out.

Levels of intimacy

It’s not entirely up to the girl to set limits how far you both will go. Generally speaking, the man wants sex and will often take it if offered to him by a woman but if she sets a bit lower limit, he’ll then take as much as he can realistically get.

This effectively means a girl sets the so-called level of intimacy and that level will have to be above the limit of her comfort zone. That said, it doesn’t always have to work this way. You shouldn’t insist on sex if she’s unwilling but you ain’t got to accept her chosen substitute.

She might like you to lie in bed and kiss her all night. You may just want sex. Neither of you is obliged to give the other what they want. Try and explain to her that lying in bed kissing her all night will make you horny and frustrated and you would prefer to wait till she feels more comfortable with you.

The key here is to show zero resentment or annoyance. She’ll be looking for it. Never tell her it’s all or bugger all because she could feel manipulated. Also do not force her to agree to anything verbally but notice what happens when you start sexually touching her again.