Pre-Selection

Don’t talk about lack of success with girls. Talking about how your ex dumped you or how lonely you feel is hardly a good strategy. This remains valid even if a girl has just mentioned something similar about herself.

If you’re getting better with girls compared to before, it’s natural to want to talk about it. Avoid doing so; pre-selection ideally is communicated subtly.

Ambiguity is your mate. Being seen with hot female ‘mates’ is great because you don’t necessarily appear as a busy player but a girl will realise that other girls find you intriguing.

Pre-selection is, strictly speaking, contextual and relative. A girl is most affected by pre-selection from other girls at or above her level, however defined.