Opening and Openers

Many men have difficulty approaching women because they just don’t know where and how to start. Here, we use the concept called ‘Opening’ and its derivative ‘Openers’ which explain what it involves to start conversations with strangers.

What is Opening?

It’s not quite easy to start conversations with strangers. In fact, it can be intimidating. But everything that follows in our guide is based on the absolute ability to approach fit birds without feeling awkward and then confidently start a smooth conversation with them. This process is known as ‘Opening’ and the ways we start a conversation

Openers

Now you might ask why there must be specific ways to start chatting to someone. Why can’t we just walk up to a girl and say ‘Hi’? Well, you can indeed and it might work.

Generally speaking, however, we find that most fit girls are chatted up so often by so many different blokes that they’re used to saying No to strangers as soon as they approach, unless they’re phenomenally good-looking or socially desirable.

So when you open, you’re effectively starting a single topic conversation. Going from transition to a normal conversation normally takes from 10 seconds to 2 minutes.

Should it take longer, both the single topic as well as the interaction really does risk becoming stale and it can even become awkward to move onto other topics and develop a normal conversation.

Women don’t normally tend to be alone in most social situations. So when talking about approaching a woman, we generally mean approaching her group. Try and engage the whole group and don’t pay excessive attention to the girl you’re interested in.

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