Making Plans V Girls

Most girls absolutely hate making plans in advance. This applies especially to younger girls, many of whom don’t want to commit themselves to specific plans in advance at all.

What if something even more exciting just comes up? What if she feels shitty on the day? How on earth is she supposed to know what to do in a few days’ time anyway? If you make plans with a girl who doesn’t organise her social life very well, you might just need to ‘call her to confirm.’

Calling to confirm is an excellent manoeuvre for girls and you’ve got to admire its cleverness. She’s now locked you into plans if she really wants them. She’s got a date option. She can decide if this is really what she wanna do, whether or not she would prefer to do something else, knowing full well you’ve kept that option open for her.

As far as she’s concerned, this is better than making firm plans and cancelling because she’s aware most men won’t put up with endless cancellations. That said, men will still tolerate a couple of occasions where plans somehow fall through, particularly if they were not confirmed in the first place.