Logistics - It Matters

OK you’ve convinced her to go home with you - well done. But what now? An awful lot of guys fail at the last hurdle and end up getting absolutely nothing out of a new girl they’ve pulled. Here’s how to avoid it:

• Use your place instead of hers the first time you sleep with a new girl. A girl’s bedroom is packed with state breaks and her room mates or, worse, family could be in and break her mood. Her dog could be ill. She could have failed to clean her bedroom up and be too embarrassed to let you see it. In addition, she’s well reminded of her routines - how many hours of sleep she needs, what she’s got to do the following day etc.
• Make sure your place is well set up for seduction. At least, it should be clean enough for a girl to be comfortable. The toilet, particularly, should be hygienic. Also have fun things to do. Interactive fun is superior to cool DVDs. Get yourself a Nintendo Wii or whatever.
• The living room should be arranged so there’s no way for you both to sit down other than side by side together on a couch. If you’ve got chairs, pile things on them before she comes round so she can’t sit there.
• A bit of romance and implied sexuality won’t hurt. Have champagne, ice-cream and strawberries around. Be fun, not seductive.
• Get rid of things that a girl would find particularly offensive. Most girls don’t like public displays of hardcore pornography or graphic violence. And if she’s seeing you as long-term boyfriend potential, she might be scanning your place to see if she’d be comfortable sharing a life with you. Very important.
• Alcohol can and often does build comfort and of course it lets a girl feel less responsible. Have drinks in the fridge that girls like. Most girls prefer wine to beer, vodka to rum, sweet mixers to bitter ones etc.