Comfort & Sexual Situations

A sexual situation is one where you and your girl are engaging in sexual behaviour in a place where it’s highly possible for sex to happen. When you’ve both established that level of comfort together, you’re on your way to sexual intimacy.

While some girls can reach this point of comfort pretty easily, given the right bloke and the right situation, most girls present more of a challenge. These girls are unlikely to make a sexual decision in the moment she might later regret.

Shagging too many guys, or sleeping with somebody too early does carry more severe consequences for girls than guys.

The good news here is that you don’t need to challenge them directly. All you need to do is solve the most underlying comfort issues. Your priority is to move quickly because there are loads of variables in a girl’s life that are beyond your control.

Girls become too busy and meet other blokes all the time. You need to build as much comfort with her as you possibly can and the chance of her seeing you as a priority will be greater.

That said, the comfort phase will usually take a couple of hours. Most girls need time to build mutual connection. Obviously, they do this to avoid being fooled or sleeping with someone based on a wrong first impression.

It’s noteworthy that not all time is equal. You build more of a mutual connection with a girl the more you see her. Seeing her once a week results in more comfort than once a month. The concept of repeatedly seeing her implies sharing of information and arranging future plan.