Being Good-looking

Most blokes can easily become physically attractive through good fashion and grooming choices. Unless you’re super unlucky, you should be able to get your looks to a point they won’t pose a problem for most girls to date you. This is absolutely in your control.

However, being good-looking won’t usually do much for you by itself. Most of the time, all it will do is prevent you being rejected, unfortunately, on the grounds of looks alone. Girls do reject men based on appearance, though nowhere near the other way round.

Good looks also give men more approach invitations and even more overall freedom to make mistakes. So you might like to do everything you possibly can to improve them. You bloody well should. But don’t expect this to completely change your life.

You should consider yourself to be relatively lucky to be a man. It’s far easier to improve your looks and most girls don’t demand dating male models. Correct me if I’m wrong but unattractive girls have a much harder time finding, let alone keeping, a man.