10 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart

It’s like there’s no tomorrow, you feel you wouldn’t be happy again, you are terribly stuck with the awful moments when your heart was deeply wounded like it’s the end of the world and they keep haunting you day after day. However, it’s your choice to either be the same person you used to be or perpetually be plunged into the thought of the one you love the most but she never knows or even cares. There is a saying ‘Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional’. Here we list the 10 best ways to heal your broken heart, make your choice and cheer up mates!

1. Dating someone new

Someone says it’s somewhat unfair on a new girl if you go for a new date right after a broken heart, so you’ve got to be sure you have a bit of a crush on her or at least feel she’s special to you. When you’re dating the new one, you’ve got her to talk to and this can stop your mind wandering around. The date will light up your life, she makes your heart pulse and you are being revitalised.

2. You’re too precious

You’d better praise yourself for being too precious for that kind of girl. She just doesn’t deserve a great man like you and you both were totally mismatched. As she neither valued you nor treasured your love, do not waste your time mourning. Keep your head held up high and you will completely get through this suffering and pain. There’s a priceless saying which I came across on the internet “If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride.”

3. Keep yourself busy

Find something to do, keep yourself busy with it and you will have no chance of being obsessed with your ex. You might join the college activities, sports club, shopping or anything you find interesting. Despite the fact that you can bit by bit take your mind out of her, you’ve got an opportunity to meet new people and a new partner who will always realise how important you are to her.

4. Let the tears out

Sob for a while till you run out tears and then start a new life - the life without grief, tear and her! It’s not that easy to ward off the horrible sadness, you just need some time and powerful encouragement. ‘Time can heal a broken heart’ You might be fed up with this saying but it’s the truth through and through. Time waits for no man, but there’s still time for a broken heart. Good luck and have a good cry.

5. Think positive

When love gets you down, think positive! Some might not take it seriously but positive thinking is so powerful that you can be hauled up from despair. After a broken heart, do not torture yourself by any negative thinking as you should be well aware that you’ve gained a good experienced in relationships, strength to live your life and believe that those bad things never to be repeated.

6. Seek counseling

You should find someone to help you get through it, it could be friends, family or anyone you trust and they are willing to lift a large burden from your shoulders, at least by being a good listener. Never spend your day on your own thinking what went wrong, it won’t do any good as you might have not done anything wrong but a girl’s heart is a deep ocean of thoughts which are too hard to comprehend.

7. Never think about getting revenge

You’ve got to move on so do not try to get even with the one who broke your heart, it will only make things worse - you still think of her in an extremely depressive moment, creating the best way to ruin her life. If the plans fail, you’ll be the one who are still stuck with the unpleasant past while she’s being happy, dating a new man. So, let bygones be bygones, you both are just not made for each other.

8. Think of the bad moments with your ex

I’m sure you have quite a few of terrible moments and experiences with your ex and yes that’s great! The best way to forget someone is to try to think about their bad things and the bad moments with them. When you’re doing this, you’re not blaming her or anything. On the contrary, you are just trying to get her out of your mind by not thinking how happy you used to be with her. Those are the miserable yesterdays which will uselessly have you occupied with your ex forever.

9. Your case is not the worst

It’s not the end of the world. You won’t die with a broken heart! Try to think your case is not the worst one, there are many people who drastically suffer and their cases are way worse than yours. Your broken heart is noting compared with those who lost their loved ones for good in accidents, wars and natural disasters.

10. Try to get more Endorphins

Endorphin is a chemical substance which is naturally released in the brain to reduce pain and increase the sense of well-being. Chocolate and sweets are good sources of the endorphin. This way might sound a bit funny but it’s worth trying, isn’t it?

What about you guys, what tips can you share from previous experiences?