10 Tips For Perfect Kissing

Do you kiss like a sink plunger? Snog like a fish or have been told you kiss like a vampire? Well help is on hand! We have Ten Tips that will have you kissing like a real Romeo with enough passion to have your lady weak at the knees in no time!

Lip Maintenance

Your lips are one of the most sensitive parts of your body, they are are prone to sun and wind damage which can make them dry or chapped. As a perfect kisser you do need to have nice lips. We are not suggesting that you start to wear ladies lippy! lol but a little lip balm on a regular basis will keep your lips very soft and kissable.

Relationship Status

Before you even think about going in for a snog you need to think about your relationship with the lady in question. Have you just met? Have you been seeing her for a while? Is she your wife or long term partner? You need to tailor your kiss depending on your relationship status, after all you don’t want to scare the poor girls away by getting too passionate to quickly.

Read The Signs?

There is nothing more embarrassing than going in for a kiss before the girl or lady is ready, it leads to blushing (yes men blush !!) and you’ll no doubt feel like a right plonker. Read your girls body language, is she getting closer to you? Is she touching you affectionately? There will be signs that she’s thinking of kissing you or wanting to kiss you, so make sure you pay attention. This way you will know the right moment. Hat tip: check out our Signs Of Attraction article if your not to sure where you stand!

Gently Does It

It’s always best to go in gently with the first kiss, there’s no rush and it’s always nice to tease a little. Start off softly, gently brushing your lips against hers, even if you’ve been with the girl or lady for a long time. Show her you have a sensual side and give her a taste what may come later. Depending on how she responds you can then decide to get more passionate or not, this way you are less likely to get it wrong.

Body Space

Don’t be too up close and personal straight away as she may feel uncomfortable especially if it’s a new relationship. The last thing you need is her thinking you are too full on. Try to let her move towards you, this way she will feel in control of the kiss and relaxed enough to let things flow.

Don’t Drown Her

For goodness sake make sure you give yourself chance to swallow, from a kissers point of view nothings worse than feeling like your snogging a wet fish. It is possible to swallow just using your tongue towards the back of your mouth, this way you don’t have to break the perfect kiss. The kiss should be perfect for you and her so make sure she doesn’t feel like she’s drowning!

To Tongue Or Not To Tongue

French kissing (using your tongue) should only be used at the right moment, again you have to assess your relationship and situation. Slipping your tongue into a girls mouth when you are on a first date can be seen as too forward as well as possibly embarrassing for her. Also passionately French kissing in the wrong place or at the wrong time can again cause embarrassment for your lady as well as people around you. If you want to be the perfect pucker upper then you need to keep French kissing to moments when you have a chance to take things further. Depending on the girl, 99% first time kisses are done in private. The perfect French kiss should be slow, teasing and sexy, just like foreplay.

Hands On?

Knowing what to do with your hands can leave you feeling awkward after all you don’t want to seem like an octopus but you don’t want to seem like an amateur either. You can combat this by showing your affection without copping a feel. While you are sharing your intimate moment you could gently take her hands in yours, maybe softly cup her face with your hands or if it’s not a new relationship you could caress up and down her back to make her tingle all over. Again you are showing her what may come later.

Eyes Wide Open

While you enjoying your perfect kissing moment with your beautiful lady don’t be tempted to open your eyes to see if she has hers open. We’ve all been there and as you know, the moment you do, your eyes lock and you instantly break the kiss. Be confident enough to keep your eyes closed and just enjoy the experience. If she opens her eyes and sees that yours are closed there’s a good chance she’ll get back to enjoying the experience.

Practice Makes Perfect

Don’t panic if you aren’t a great kisser, like everything practice does make perfect and if you use our tips, with time your kissing skills will improve. You may find that some of these tips aren’t for you and some are. Everyone is different and don’t forget not all girls and ladies are good kisser’s either so you are not alone.

Do you have any good kissing tips you would like to share? As always, leave them in the comments